Stay in Position

I was talking with my husband about a conversation he had at work. He said that it got so involved that he and the other person had to pull out the Bible. I thought that was a good thing! Bible study on the job is awesome and what a great opportunity to share Christ.  However, as my husband continued, he mentioned that the discussion centered on Adam and Eve and the events leading up the fall of man.

He began asking me questions that really got me to thinking. We opened the Bible and together began seeking answers. Some were obvious and others were not. Nevertheless, I noticed something that gave birth to this article. In Genesis 3:1-7, there is an account of Eve having a conversation with the serpent at the tree. As I read that over again, I considered that as women, we must stay in our position.

Since the beginning of time, many have debated who was at fault for man's downfall. Despite a biblical account, the debate continues. I concluded that both were at fault. Eve, however for a different reason. Scripture implies that she was at the tree talking with the serpent. I immediately thought: Why was Eve at the tree? Why was she not fulfilling her duties as wife and mother? Could it be that she had too much free time to be conversing with the enemy? (An idol mind is the devil's workshop.)

With that being said, the Holy Spirit began to show me through this story, how we as wives must stay in position and not abandon our roles.

The first thing we must do is study the word of God. It is crucial for us to know the truth about what He has spoken. The devil twisted God's words in the garden and deceived Eve; he uses that same tactic today.  If we know God's Word for ourselves, it's harder for others to twist the words and deceive us. But, another important aspect of study is the revelation provided by the Holy Spirit that will make us all better spouses.

The next thing we should do is stand on God's Word. Eve received instruction from God long before the devil ever tempted her. However, she became mesmerized by the presentation of the devil and fell for his trickery. Do not allow the enemy to confuse or manipulate you into believing his lies. If God said it, that settles it.

I remember when all heck was breaking loose in my marriage; I was at the point of leaving. But God spoke and commanded me to stay. In the midst of it all, the enemy said, "Get a divorce". I sympathized with Eve. The longer I looked at my busted up marriage, it seemed that all hope was gone. But God's Word gave me the strength to endure.

The final thing you need to do to stay in position, is do not become silent. Eve initially talked to the enemy. But in the middle of the conversation, she stopped talking. She allowed the voice of the enemy to overpower her. Death and life are in the power of your tongue. So when the enemy comes and talks to you, talk back. Let him know that you are aware of his schemes. Confess God's Word to Satan. Then you can beat Satan at his own game. God has given you and me the power to trample on the enemy. But, remember to stand up against the tricks of the devil in the name of Jesus.

Satan will come for you because you are closest to your husband. He will cover up the truth. He will use you as an undercover agent to destroy your own heart and mind. When you study the Bible, stand on it and you will be fully armed for battle. You have an unlimited power source to help you stay in position. Do not be lured. You do not want to lose your God-ordained position. Do not seek to control, undermine or usurp your husband's rule, and likewise, he needs to honor your position as his wife. You two may not always think alike, attend church together, or read the Bible, but as long as you are married the enemy will use that to manipulate the truth and your positions. Strive for oneness and don't fall for lies and tricks.

You have an awesome task as being a wife and women of God. He has ordained us to be a helper to our husbands. Our husbands cannot do it all. We are the glue to keep things running smoothly. Do not allow Satan to lure you out of your position.

Comments

[karen Evans]

Hello Ms.Lakeyshia,

I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoyed this article. I look forward to reading more of them. I hope you are having a wonderful weekend. God bless you girl.